"Keeping a Boundary" Tim Timmerman; Kiln Worked Glass
Just read this a few days ago and found myself resonating with this remark of Peck’s. Thought you might find it of use as well:
“We are called to wholeness and simultaneously to recognize our incompleteness; called to power and to acknowledge our weakness; called to both individuation and interdependence.”
F. Scott Peck; Different Drum; Page 56
(It’s being in the tension of those poles that seems to be an element that makes us human, and how we negotiate those opposites makes us adults. Not an easy endeavor indeed!)
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